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Sometimes I wonder who I am. I know I’m not the only one who has wondered this. Everyone has at some point in their life. If you say to yourself, “No, I’ve never wondered that,” then I will call BS on you right now. You may not like me calling you out but someone has to. When I think about who I am, I shut down for a while. I will not have motivation to do much. I shut down both emotionally and socially. Don’t ask me why. Just don’t.

But the reason I’m writing this post isn’t because of who I am. It’s about who you are. So I ask you, “who are you?” Are you a friend? A stranger? An acquaintance? A potential partner? Who knows. I’d like to share a couple of Youtube videos with you. I find they are super inspirational and maybe it will make you look inside yourself as well. Their is a men’s and women’s version of the video. I will post each separately.

So guys, let’s take a moment to reflect on what we just saw. We saw a very powerful movie that gives us the power to move on. Something that motivates us right? By telling ourselves this we really get a sense of what we want in life. I hate seeing people unhappy. I know what it’s like to be rejected. To be hurt. What I do know however is that guys, you are strong, you are brave, you are capable of accomplishing much more than you know. You just have to have the confidence to see it. Sometimes it takes time to build up. Sometimes it can be shattered in the blink of an eye because of a decision you made. Wether that be a good one that causes you great rewards or one that you regret for the rest of your life.

But, that’s just it. It’s just a decision. If it’s the wrong one then learn from it and move on. That’s all anyone can do. And to everyone out there reading this I suggest you listen to this one thing I’m going to say. If nothing else, then this is what you should listen to. Some of you will have either heard or said or done both, but for those of you who haven’t here it is: a true friend is someone who has your back. Someone you can count on. Someone who when you need him or her most will be their for you no matter what. A true friend is someone who is understanding…That’s right understanding. You may not agree on everything. You may argue, fight even lose contact with each other for a while. But I bet that they return after a while. For everyone this differs to person to person but they should return in time. If they don’t then I’m either really sorry or they aren’t a true friend.

As for you Ladies:

I may not be a woman but I do know an awful lot about relationships. Since I have always been a friendly guy, my friends would often come to me for advice. You see I would often get both sides of the relationship story so I could usually piece together the complete truth and also give advice. It was quite simple actually. They come to me, I listen to them, I give them advice from things I picked up on over the course of many listening sessions. I became to many peoples almost like therapy agent. It’s funny actually. I have a wealth of knowledge but I just don’t know how to apply it.

Anyway to all women out there. Children, teenagers, adults, and elders I’d like to give you a shout out and say that you make our lives better. Maybe we don’t take you for granted as much as we should. I don’t know though honestly. But without you their would be no us honestly. (Let’s pretend we all know the sex talk however, for the sake of time and space.) Let me say that everything you see in this video is true. Every damn thing! And men, if you don’t like it *bleep* off! This is about them as much as it is about us.

You may be self conscious, doubting your worth, your prettiness, your part in society. We’ve all been their I have, may times. But I look at it like even if we aren’t on the top 10 list of hottest people out their. Looks aren’t based on everything. It’s the personality on the inside that makes us who we are. Looks would mean nothing if not for personality.

To Everyone: It doesn’t matter where you come from. Whether it’s Canada, USA, Japan, Nigeria, Russia, Sweden, Spain, Brazil, India, Guatemala and the other 190+ . It doesn’t matter what race you are. It doesn’t matter what your skin colour is. All that matters in the end is your personality.

Everyone out their is AWESOME! Don’t any of you forget it. You may not believe it but you are guys and gals. You bloody are!

For me personally? I can say I take pride in knowing my friends. I like to think I’m on good terms with my friends. Like stated above. We may argue, but I like to think that we can make up and continue on being friends. To any of my friends out there that I’ve hurt in the past or present, I would like to apologize from the bottom of my heart. Everything I said I said probably without thinking of the consequences. Maybe it was lack of sensitivity, or maybe it was me just trying to be funny. I don’t know. But please accept my apology. I will do better and I hope we can continue to be friends.

But that’s it for now guys, please comment below.

Cheers.

Jophis23

“Love is a mystery in the eyes of everyone. Never truly discovered, only found by 2 people.”

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We Come To…..

Posted: 07/01/2013 in Quotes
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Hey Guys,

I was going through some old friends Facebook photo’s and I found a very interesting one. It’s a picture that I can’t actually show due to privacy reasons but I am going to borrow from the photo. Enjoy Guys!

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly,”

– Sam Keen (To Love and Be Loved)